I Remember

I remember those days

When we held each other so tight in a moving subway
How we refused to let go; hands clasped and fingers intertwined
How I ran my fingers through your hair watching you falling asleep

How you covered me with blankets on cold nights
When I boiled tap water to make tea for your upset stomach
And the soothing warmth that follows

When we had a little picnic with dumplings and chocolate
How it was too early to drink yet we could not care less
How you smiled and how the camera captured the happiness

When you taught me to adjust different bike seats and change gears
How I watched your back disappeared and reappeared
How we shared bottled water and snacks that looked gross

I remember those sunny days in the parks
The cold days inside the house and windy days in between
The late mornings, quiet dawns and gentle melodies of wind chimes

When we watched the whole season of series you have already seen
How you prepared that delicious bowl of spicy popcorn
How we shared it and cleaned up the mess on the carpet

How you reached for my hand before sleep
How we closed our eyes with legs on top of each other
Do you have any idea how peaceful you looked?

And that fine evening… that particular night when the moon bloomed
When you set up the telescope with Besame Mucho on the background

How I wish we had danced.

Hello Kitty Galore? Why Not?

Before my trip to Taiwan, I never knew that Hello Kitty has huge fan bases all over the world. And I mean HUGE. It’s a normal thing to see one or two Hello Kitty cars in Jakarta, my hometown, but to find her printed on buses, gondola, tea bottles, popcorn, sweet shops, cafes, restaurant, planes –basically everything you can think of— even liquor? Now that’s something.

Hello Kitty Diehards, Taiwan is the place for you. I’m telling you: she can be found in every corner. Come and gorge yourself.

As for the rest of us… I hope you like pink. 😀

balloons

Because any other shape is so last decade.

popcorn
Here, have some Hello Kitty popcorn…

milktea

and wash it down with milk tea!

liquor

Even better, with some liquor for extra kick!

shoptillyoudrop

So you’ll have enough energy to shop till you drop.

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But remember this,

ss2at any cost…

mustnottouch

You. Must. Not. Touch. Kitty.

 

Mau Jalan-jalan dan Belanja Bebas Ribet? Yuk, Siap PIN!

Sebagai pengguna kartu kredit yang jarang menggesek kecuali benar-benar perlu (bukan karena irit tapi memang mengkhususkan pemakaian kartu kredit untuk traveling), saya nggak terlalu paham seluk-beluk penggunaannya. Pokoknya saya tahu pakai kartu kredit harus disertai tanda tangan. Yo wis to, diikuti, biarpun sering jengkel karena tidak semua petugas kasir ingat membekali diri dengan pulpen. Seringnya malah lupa, hingga terjadilah pinjam-meminjam pakai acara keluar kasir segala. Kalau nggak buru-buru, ya saya sabar aja nungguin Mbak Kasir mencari pulpen. Lain cerita kalau lagi kelaparan, kemalaman dan kebelet pipis!

Saya pernah, dong, misuh-misuh karena harus menunggu mbak-mbak kasir meminjam pulpen ke temannya, yang juga meminjam ke teman lain, yang ternyata baru meminjamkan pulpennya ke tetangga ipar adik tirinya (abaikan yang terakhir). Waktu itu, saya melanggar peraturan tidak-boleh-pakai-KK-kecuali-traveling karena uang tunai di dompet tidak cukup dan tidak bawa kartu debit. Rempongnya, mamak! Padahal, saya pengunjung satu-satunya di supermarket yang sudah mau tutup sementara di luar angin dan petir sudah sambung menyambung menjadi satu itulah Indonesia, siap muntah badai. Isssh! Sejak itu, saya selalu menyelipkan ekstra 100-200ribu di dompet untuk menghindari keribetan saat berbelanja.

Masalahnya, saya tidak selalu bisa membawa uang tunai dalam jumlah besar. Keribetan ini makin menjadi waktu saya melakukan perjalanan ke Eropa selama sebulan. Sebagian besar negara Eropa sudah mewajibkan penggunaan PIN kartu kredit sementara saya masih mengandalkan tanda tangan. Untuk keperluan sehari-hari (makan, subway, bayar penginapan, dan sebagainya) memang tidak masalah karena saya sudah mempersiapkan anggaran jauh sebelum keberangkatan. Yang jadi masalah adalah ketika nafsu belanja kumat dan yang standby di dompet hanya kartu kredit. Saya pernah terpaksa membatalkan transaksi karena kartu kredit tidak bisa digunakan. Kartu kredit ditahan? Pernah juga. Belum lagi kejadian-kejadian ngeselin di mana kartu kredit saya tidak diterima di mesin-mesin tertentu.

Tahu gitu, kan, sebelum berangkat saya minta PIN dulu ke bank! Untungnya, ada saja orang baik yang bersedia membantu sehingga perjalanan saya tetap lancar sentosa (albeit misuh-misuh sedikit). Phew!

Sepulangnya ke Jakarta, saya pun langsung menghubungi bank untuk minta PIN. Toh, kabar yang beredar waktu itu, Indonesia akan mewajibkan penggunaan PIN kartu kredit mulai tahun 2015. (Gimana kelanjutannya ya, sudah ada kabar?) Prosedurnya ternyata gampang. Saya bahkan tidak perlu datang ke bank. Semua dilakukan melalui email dan telepon, sesekali dibantu social media officer dari bank yang bersangkutan. Dalam waktu satu sampai dua minggu, bank mengirim PIN lewat email yang bisa diakses dengan password. PIN ini harus segera diganti dengan PIN pilihan sendiri lewat ATM.

Saya pun ngacir ke ATM terdekat. Nggak sampai 5 menit, beres. Legaaa! Kenapa lega? Karena selain mempermudah transaksi, penggunaan PIN secara otomatis memberikan perlindungan ekstra bagi pemilik kartu kredit. Pernah denger kan, kasus pembobolan kartu kredit yang baru ketahuan setelah digasak habis-habisan? Males banget kalau sampai kejadian saat saya sedang berada di kampung antah berantah negara X, misalnya.

Anyway, manfaat kartu kredit ber-PIN ini baru betul-betul terasa waktu saya ngelencer ke Taiwan, Desember kemarin. Saya sudah lupa tentang PIN dan tetek-bengeknya. Antrilah saya di kasir, menyodorkan kartu, daaan belanjaan saya langsung diserahkan berikut kartu kredit dan bukti pembayaran, tanpa tanda tangan dan cari pulpen! Hore! Cicik-cicik kasir tampak bingung waktu saya menerima barang-barang tersebut sambil cengar-cengir… dan kembali lagi ke kasir yang sama satu jam kemudian. Iya, saya nggak jadi pergi dan malah lanjut belanja, hihihi.

Kalau kamu, gimana? Punya cerita menarik tentang kartu kredit dan jalan-jalan? 😀

 

 

Beautiful People of Taiwan

“Fifty-five.” She answered after quickly examined one package of crispy almonds and chocolate covered bread I picked from the shelves. I reached my pocket and found two NTD (New Taiwan Dollar) coins, each 50 and 5. She quickly placed the sweets into a pink plastic bag and handed it to me. Inside, I found what looked like a triangle-shaped strawberry bread.

I looked at her, puzzled. Must be some kind of mistake.

“I did not buy this.”

She shook her head, smiling. “Free.”

***

I love looking into people’s eyes. I never have to search for something because eyes show everything. You can look at someone’s eyes and find things you need to know about them. Well, most of the time.

One thing that impresses me most about Taiwan, surprisingly, is the beauty of the people. To be real honest, I did not have high expectations about Taiwan, except for the nice cool weather as an attempt to escape scorching hot Jakarta, where I had been spending the last months of 2014. Don’t get me wrong. I have never heard bad things about Taiwan, but that’s exactly why. I have never heard a thing about the country, and yet here I was packing a suitcase for one-month trip. Better not to expect anything.

So when my traveling partner announced that he lost his phone on the second day, my first reaction was, “Oh shit.” We tried to track it to no avail. Both of us don’t speak Chinese. We went to a restaurant where we were supposed to meet some friends for lunch—some of them speak perfect Chinese and English, thank God!—and asked for help. They called his phone. A police picked up. Someone found the phone and delivered it to the nearest police station. In less than 30 minutes my friend got his phone back.

During my stay in Taiwan at least three times it happened to different persons, either someone lost his phone or simply left it somewhere for hours and the phones always, always, returned. We joked about it, though, “Bet a brand-new iPhone 6 would make a whole different story!”

😀

It was one fine albeit cold afternoon. I decided to give vegetarian restaurant a shot after many days of alcohol and greasy meals. I chose four dishes that looked the most delicious from the long buffet table and paid NTD45 (around $1.4). Not bad at all. I sat on a table, devouring my meal with sticky chili oil and soy sauce. My friend came in. He was eating bread he bought from a minimarket nearby, so he didn’t get any vegetarian meal. We were sharing a can of beer when a lady, the restaurant owner, approached us with two bowls full of steaming, clear golden liquid. Carefully putting the bowls on the table right in front of us. We must looked so puzzled because she started grinning and pointing at the bowls, then at us.

“Good for body!” She lifted her thumbs.

We took a sip. It was quite tasty. Vegetable broth, I think. I accidentally dropped my chopsticks when sipping it, and the lady rushed to give me another pair. She didn’t have to—there were bunch of new ones on the table. My friend emptied his bowl as I finished my meal. When the lady saw the empty bowl, she came to pick it, filled it with second helping of broth and gave it to my friend. We did not pay a dime for three bowls of delicious nutritious broth.

I could not help but felt so impressed and touched by these simple gestures.

Then there was this clerk at a 7-Eleven store near MRT station who showed me a cute black and white bookmark when I dropped my purchase on the counter. He said something that looked like trying to sell it and I shook my head. (If only I had a penny for every time someone speaks to me in Chinese!) I asked him to put everything in a paper bag, and that’s when I noticed the bookmark among my purchase.

“I didn’t buy this,” I gave it back to him.

He blurted something in Chinese. I threw my best smile while trying to remember how to say “Wo bu hui shuo zhongguo hua” (I don’t speak Chinese). Truth is, I needed to pee. Badly.

He spoke few more words in Chinese. Smiled and shook his head at the same time, then pointed at me.

“For me?” I was confused. He nodded. His smile grew wider.

I stepped out and paused to examine the bookmark — the instant warmth that enveloped my heart. I have fallen for this country, the food, the remarkably good transportation system and the sparkling clean toilets, but it’s the locals that captured my heart. The smiles on their faces that made me feel as if we could relate to each other despite the language barrier and all the difference between us.

It wasn’t about the gifts. It was something about their smiles, the sincerity, the warmth that follows.

Those eyes don’t lie.

Is It Really Worth It?

To get stuck in an unsatisfying, dead-end job
To stay in a place you consistently need to escape from
To let worries and fear of the future shape your thoughts
To let the stress of all things above affects your relationship(s)
To opt for constant struggle instead of contentment and peace of mind
To choose attachment and possessions over freedom and self-love
To obsess over what if, could have, might have been

To let ego reign.